As With All Matters Of The Heart, You'll Know When You've Found It.

MynameisQUE;

Some would find her eccentric, but she believes that one day someone will find her weird quirks endearing. She appreciates a good man who is able to carry a conversation and one who takes her feelings into consideration. She also believes that there is nothing more sexy than a man who's comfortable in his own skin. 

Xoxo

He's just not that into you.

MynameisQUE;

 Source: Interview Magazine 

Don't you find it difficult to understand men? I do. Sometimes, I don't know if it is just me or whether he is pulling himself away and taking a step back. 

Here are some signs to tell if a guy is not into you. 

1) He talks comfortably about other girls to you. 

He'll probably reply to you something along the lines of, 

"You told me to open up to you and when I do, there is a criteria. A filter. 

You only want to listen to things you want to hear" to make you feel guilty. Well girls, if you're expected to listen to him talk about how he's into Japanese girls and stuff like that, then perhaps it's time to do something about it. Take action and see how far it'll go. This includes asking you about your hot friend.

2) He's never there. 

He doesn't call you. Doesn't take the initiative to send you a text first. Doesn't ask you how you're doing. He's always "busy". He doesn't call back when he says he will. Normally with such signs like this, it is quite obvious that he isn't into you. And after sometime, when you're getting used to not having him around, he appears again and texts you out of the blue. He probably thinks you're a doormat and that he can come and go as and when he feels like it. 

3) His friends don't know you exist. 

Yup. Sounds familiar? 

4) He avoids talking about his feelings. 

If a man is truly interested in you, he will be willing to share information about himself. He wouldn't hold back and most importantly, he would open up to you. You won't even have a hard time "figuring him out". 

And lastly... 

5) He keeps you hanging and wondering about everything. 

Don't we all hate that? 

These signs will save you from wasting time from a relationship that will never happen. Keep in mind that if he's not into you, it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you. Darling, you just haven't met someone who truly deserves you. And that guy, who says you can't be friends with him? You'll just have to keep him in your "Out of Bounds" list. ;) 

Xoxo

Xoxo

How to survive long distance relationships?

MynameisQUE;

This is pretty close to the heart for me. 

1) Be patient. It is going to be dificult but you never know unless you try. 

2) Find ways to connect with each other. 

Whatsapp, Talkbox, Path, Pair etc. The list of apps you can try to use to connect with your partner is really endless. Try games too like Draw Something and Words with friends. It is always important to keep yourself updated about each other's life.

3) Give him/her a little space to breathe. Being too paranoid won't help either. I know the whole, "What is he doing there? Is he with some other girl?!" feeling. It's perfectly normal but you just gotta chill and trust him.

4) Keep yourself occupied. Remember, you have a life to live too. I think one thing I've learnt about men is that most of them like girls who are independent. It really gets on their nerves when we girls become too clingy. It's hard to not be clingy, so you just have to try.

5) Believe.

Good luck lovers! 

Xoxo

The mini getaway with the girls

MynameisQUE;

Last week, my close friends and I decided to have a mini get together at Aloha Loyang chalet. I managed to get pretty good rates and we were ready to roll. It was only one night but I had fun!

I started my morning by heading to BBQ House to get satay and otahs for bbq with the girls later the evening. We were only expecting a small group so we didn't buy too much food. Since it was a school day for our other friends, they couldn't join us. Anyway, if you're looking for stuff to bbq, you should consider BBQ house cos they're stuff are pretty cheap. 1 stick of satay cost 27 cents. If I'm not wrong. The cheapest compared to the rest I surveyed. You'll also get a 5% discount if you choose to walk-in/self collect the items you ordered. The downside would be that the place is pretty ulu near upper changi road, so you might have to take a cab to the building.  

Walking around Pasir Ris Park eating ice cream. 

Ordered brownies from an online friend, Syakina. The brownies were moist and delicious! My friends really loved her brownies. She also takes orders for cupcakes. Price wise, affordable compared to the other cupcake makers. Visit  http://sst-indulgence.blogspot.com/

And.... we entertained ourselves by playing with our meme masks. Hehe 

Anyway, we girls made a pact. No matter what happens, if we catch our partners/our friend's partners doing things behind our back, we are to inform each other. I thought it was a pretty good pact. I've always believed that girls should be united whenever it comes to men. Maybe it's just me. I don't know.

Also, we spent the night trolling people on Chatroulette with our masks. I'll share the printscreens with you soon. I really can't wait for my trip to Bandung!! :)

Anyway, if you don't know me, I'm Que. I'm a graduate from Singapore Polytechnic, with a Diploma in Media and Communication specialising in Social Media. I'm looking for a temporary job while awaiting for the results of my degree application. If you know of anyone looking for temp workers, email me at rynaque@gmail.com Thank you! <3

Xoxo

I need to set myself free again and find myself again

MynameisQUE;

Too often, when you put someone else's happiness above yourself, you tend to lose grip of yourself. Not everybody is blessed with nice sounding fairytale-like love story. Maybe not me at least. I've had my fair share of meeting the assholes, it gets frustrating. If there's something I cannot understand, it is how women would put aside their sense of pride just to fight over a man. I would never have the capacity to do anything to hurt another woman, eventhough I do not know her personally.

Let things go because if he's capable on cheating on you now, he will cheat on you again. There's no such thing as "trying to change someone". If he really wanted to, he would have done it without you telling him to do so. 

I’m worthy of a better man. Someone who doesn't put my heart to the test. At least someone who cares. Today, I've decided to leave and walk out that door. I'm not going to turn back because I know that bigger and better things await me. I'm not walking away because of the difficulties we shared because of this long distance relationship. It's more because I know that I'm capable of living without you before you entered my life, which means I am fully capable of living without you even if I left. I will not settle for second best. It'll probably take some time to find someone who'll like me for who i am. Someone who finds my quirky eccentric expressions endearing. Someone who understands why I write for a living. It'll be nice to meet someone who likes expressing himself through writing too. That would be ideal.

When you decide to end things with someone, it's never about who dumps who, but it's more about who has the courage to walk away when it’s time to go. I am that person. I am capable of better things because I know my worth. Girls, if you're being mistreated, maybe you should walk away too.

"You're an amazing girl".

I think so too. :) 

All the single ladies, put yo hands up!

Xoxo

YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND DESERVE A BREAK. Couples Retreat for you? ~~ :)

MynameisQUE;

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1) YOUR KIDS

2)      YOUR WORK

Don’t you think it’s time to take a break and spend quality time with your beloved partner? 
We all know that communication is key in every relationship. When's the last time you actually had a heart to heart talk with your partner?

Imagine this. 

A fully planned Cinta Nan Satu Couple Retreat programme for 

You + Hubby 

Here at Pulai Spring Resort & Spa,

Johor Bahru, Malaysia. (5 Star resort btw!! ;) 

Away from your kids! 

Actually can still bring them along however, extra charges apply but someone will be babysitting them there and there's activities planned for them too. Actually, the best will be to get someone to look after while you're gone. (Ask your parents/parents in law etc). 

And it's only for $155 PER COUPLE

Includes meals, hotel, coach to Johor (to and fro). I think it's WORTH IT. Firstly, you don't even have to worry about planning the couple retreat. All you have to do is register, come with your hubby and enjoyyy yourself. It's a good deal! There'll be activities lines up for you AND chances for you to win exciting prizes like netbook, camera, LCD TV, DVD recorder etc. Wah!! So fun. Honestly wish I was married and maybe i could join you all. :P 

Anyway, did I tell you that there are only slots for 

15 COUPLES?

For registration or further enquiries, contact Haslinda at 91276163 or you can choose to email them directly at prowise2005@gmail.com. LIKE them on FACEBOOK too to get updates! 

Last day to register will be 31st January 2012. 

2 WEEKS FROM NOW!

Anyway, my cousin will be one of the facilatators for this couple's retreat, so if you have any questions, you can tweet me @RynaQue and I'll get her to contact you straight. :>

While you're at it, I think it's always important to remind your partner how much you love them. 

Call them now and say the 3 magic words. ;) 

For more information, please refer to this poster. :) 

*Click on the image to enlarge.

Xoxo,

RynaQUE

QReviews: A Singapore Love Story by Low Kwa Hwa

MynameisQUE;

Being a 19 year old teenager (Haven't hit my big two zero!! Hehe), I believe that when 2 people fall in love, money, background and status isn't an issue. Well, at least for now.

A Singapore Love Story, the 10th novel written by a Singaporean novelist is about 2 individuals who come of different backgrounds falling in love. The girl comes from an upper class family. The boy, was a typical ah beng. The kind who didn't study hard, the kind our mums wouldn't approve of. I was honestly expecting a cliche happy ending at the end, (well, that's what I hoped for actually) but it wasn't anything like that. I'm sure some of you might find this story relatable somehow.

It's easy to start a relationship with someone, but it's not easy to mantain it. In a place like Singapore where the cost of living is very high, you and I both know that a mere 4 lettered word itself is not enough to sustain a relationship in the long run. It's a great book with an unexpected twist of fate. If you're a dreamer, like me, you might want to read this book so that you'll be able to remind yourself of the harsh reality of life. 

Amazing story! Get ready to be tricked :P

 A Singapore Love Story by Low Kay Hwa retails at $17.90 and is available at the usual book stores! MPH, Kinokuniya, Times and Popular.  :)

Xoxo, 

RynaQUE

What past relationships taught me ~~

MynameisQUE;

Something I learnt from my past relationships and the people, nobody likes to be with a girl who’s too emo, too insecure and too clingy. (I used to be one of those girls, but because of our distance, I’ve learnt to be a little bit more independent than I used to be.) Well, according to my radar ahem, men like to feel appreciated, cherished and feel good about themselves. So, ask yourself this.

We as girls, expect our boyfriends to be sweet to us and sing us praises, but we don’t do the same to them. Why not, take the time today to call him tonight before you sleep and tell him how much of an amazing partner he has been to you. I promise you, he’ll be sleeping with a smile on his face tonight. 

:) 

Xoxo,

RynaQUE

Girls, would you ever have the guts to propose to a guy?

MynameisQUE;


Love is such a beautiful thing, don't you think? 

No, don't get me wrong. I'm not proposing to anyone. Just that I've been watching alot of videos about wedding proposals and I thought it would be nice to share it with you. It could probably give you more ideas on how to make your wedding proposal memorable. 

This man fell in love. Literally. I thought this idea is pretty simple and creative. ;)

 Dena Bahrin's proposal. This is probably one of the sweetest and the most unbelievable of the lot. Fine, it's only unavailable because I don't think Malay men are even romantic or gutsy to begin with. Sorry boys! I couldn't help but to tear after watching this. Read Dena's post here. ~

Well basically Dena and her partner haven't really met/gotten to know each other well. So he gave her a camera as a gift (Pretty smart! Cus the camera is actually one of the things on her wishlist according to her blog. LOL) So in the camera, were pictures of him with the proposal. 

This proposal was by Timothy Tiah, co founder of Nuffnang with Malaysian blogger Audrey fourfeetnine using internet memes. Read Audrey's post here :) ~~

It got so viral that the video was even up on Mashable! Crazy!

I'm sure you've watched this a long time ago, our blogger queen Xiaxue was also proposed in a romantic way ever. I was lucky to witness it with my own eyes too! (Okay, long story short, I used to be a Nuffnang Gliterrati + blogger. Shall not go into that.)

It was actually a movie screening and I got a tad annoyed because the movie didn't start on time. I was grumbling, "Man, when is this going to start?!" and suddenly some video appeared on the screen and the proposal happened. It was amazing. Really. :")

I think of all the proposals I've seen, this is really the most dramatic one. Her boyfriend really planned the whole proposal really well! Flash mob, the cheating drama etc. Wow.

And then I recently came across an article on stomp about a China girl proposing to her boyfriend.



A GIRL, yes. So.... Would you girls ever do this to your boyfriend? My first reaction when I read this article was, "Is she out of her mind?!!!". Hahahahaha, well it's sweet though. Let's see when the time comes when I'm old enough + have enough money, whether I'll have the guts to do the same. It would be interesting. I just hope I don't get turned down. :P

Well, before my boyfriend and I got together, he dropped hints that he liked me here and there but he was never straightforward about liking me. Even until now, he's STILL very shy with me. Cute!! :)

You know me, I don't like hints. I don't like guessing games. So one day, I just decided to be honest about it. I asked him to be my boyfriend...... Via Whatsapp. You know, via the emoticons? Hahahahaha YES, I KNOW RIGHT. Fine, it might seem really shameless to you, but it was really sweet for the both of us. Cus after he agreed I told him, "No, do it again. This time, you ask me!" and he did. You could say that our relationship isn't very "typical", but it's the little details like this that makes it all worthwhile.

Anyway, bf's birthday is this month. Hopefully I can plan something sweet for him. Have any ideas? Feel free to share it via the comment box below!

Xoxo,
RynaQUE

The difference between movies and real life.

In real life, you don't always get a happy ending. –Jake Ryan

The ex boyfriend will end his bachelorhood in about 16 hours. It's hard to imagine someone you've ever loved getting married to someone else. About a month ago, he announced his engagement on Facebook, and now he's getting married. What's the rush, I wonder? I guess, they must be madly in love.

How does anyone know whether the person they're dating is "the one"? You don't know exactly for sure, don't you?

He's the oldest guy i've ever dated. It was amazing while it lasted. There's this 1 thing he'll keep reminding me everytime. "Put your parents/family first, then education, then friends and then boyfriend can be in the picture. Make sure you set your priorities right".

I guess I was abit too childish for him, he couldn't keep up? Also, Syahmi says I'm an emotionally distraught girl. Guess that explains why he left me for the other girl.... And he's marrying her tomorrow.

Haha well, suck it up. There's more to life other than relationships and falling in love. 

Merry Xmas everyone! 

Xoxo

Ps:// He still owes me money. Ya lah owe people money but can get married, buy for the girl ring everything. Men are so annoying wtf.

Top 5 traits women want in a man.

MynameisQUE;

You've read about the list of traits I'd want in my ideal man. Like what I've mentioned, I know the perfect man doesn't exist. If I wanted someone who's perfect, I'd get Ken the guy doll. Haha. We is, this blogpost will about the top 5 traits most women want in a men based on an article by the Men Health website. They surveyed more than 1000 American women aged 21 to 54 in two online polls. Let's see if what you, me and most women want kinda tally. Hmmmm...

5. Moral Integrity 

This includes having guts to to tell truth to a woman means that he'll probably be a good and decent partner in the long run. ZOMG WHY IS THIS NOT IN MY LIST. I'm sure we're all looking for someone with moral integrity, or else it just mean he's an asshole with no guts. Okay girls, don't forget to add this to your list. 

66% of the woman surveyed want this in a man. the other 34% probably likes the way he lies. 

THINK RIHANNA.

4. Kindness

If he treats the people around him kindly, he'll most likely treat you well too. Interesting. 67% women surveyed want this in a man. Obviously falls in my list too. Well, to me this boils down to moral values. I think everyone should be kind to everyone else. They say kindness begets kindness. :) 

3. Dependability

3 out of 4 women look for a man who commits and follows through. He said he's going to bring you to Sentosa someday. Did he keep to his promise? When you're in trouble, can you count on him? If he's dependable, he definitely falls into the list of 75% women suveyed. Plus, we're women. As much as we want to be independent and strong, it's always nice to know there's always a superman you can count on. ;) 

2. Sense of humour

Apparently 77% of the women surveyed would like this in a man. S H I T. This means that majority of women want guys that can make them laugh. If this is true, then I'll have trouble finding this guy since there's so much demand for this kinda guys. Plus there aren't many funny guys. There's ALOT of lame guys instead. :(

1. FAITHFULNESS 

More than 8 out of 10 women rated "faithful to me" in the top 10 attributes they find sexy in a man. Come on, we're all looking for someone who's faithful. Then again, it's hard to tell whether he IS faithful until you get into a relationship with the guy. Percentage: 84% The rest of the women who did not pick this attribute probably are relationship wreckers and are the sort who are not looking for a serious relationship. 

Cue Rihanna's Unfaithful. 

This is probably a very redundant post. The top 5 traits are obviously things we want in a guy. OH WELL. 

Credits: Men's Health

Xoxo,

RynaQUE

What's my idea of an IDEAL MAN. Well, here's a checklist!

MynameisQUE;

They say that every girl has their own checklist. Don't know if this will sound weird, but I've never listed out the characteristics ever. I mean, there are a few traits I'd like to see in my future spouse, but I'm always dating men that normally don't fall in my "ideal" man category, so why bother right? But I thought it would be rather cool to have the characteristics listed down here on my blog. Don't worry, I know that men who score well on my checklist normally either are taken, not interested in me or obviously don't exist. So... Here goes! 

1) Funny

Yes, he should be able to make me laugh naturally. Like he doesn't have to try too hard or make lame jokes. He's just entertaining like that and he knows how to socialise and hold a good conversation. 

2) Romantic

It's hard to find someone who'd sit down for half a day just to write a poem for you. He should be someone who enjoys long walks on the beach, picnic under the stars, just hanging out the the singapore river to talk and talk. When we're out on a date, he could surprise me with something I like. Someone who'd take my breath away. 

3) A food lover

No, when I talk about being a food lover, it also should mean that he doesn't chew his food loudly or eat like a glutton. It simply means that he is very adventurous when it comes to food. We'd try new places to discover "hidden gems" and bond over good food. 

4) Speaks and SMSes me in proper English

Yes, this is extremely important for me. I cannot stand it when I receive texts in broken English. And plus most of the time, I converse in English so... Yes, THIS IS IMPORTANT. 

5) Does not look down on the Malay language or race whether he's Malay or not

Don't laugh. You know how passionate I am about my own race. I know we have our own societal issues, but that doesn't mean that anyone has any right to pass any mean comments about it. As much as I converse in English, I love the Malay language because it's beautiful. Plus, my late grandpa and my grandma were Malay teachers. So....... ;) 

6) Takes pride in the way he dresses

He doesn't have to be extremely fashionable, but being neat is always important for first impression. No slippers on first date!

7) Understands and Accepts 

Understands my passion for social media, why I'm active online, why I blog, tweet, Facebook alot. 

Many people around me still don't understand why it's such a big deal for me. It'll be nice to meet someone who's supportive and understanding about this for a change. Also, it would also mean that he should be able to accept me for who I am. My personality, my fashion sense, my sense of humour etc. :) 

8) READS MY BLOG.

 What? The best way to know more about me is to read this blog okay? I'd like to know that this guy has done his research and is really interested to find out more about me.  :) 

9) Personality wise, he has to be REAL. 

Someone who's down to earth and doesn't live to impress others. Not afraid to be himself. This also means that he's honest to himself and the people around him. I'm looking for someone with a character and good values because that will differentiate one man from another. 

10) Takes the initiative to plan dates 

This is rather hard because normally guys aren't really the kind who plan. Normally I'll be the one planning. Sometimes I enjoy myself simply because it's nice to make the other party happy. There was once, I blindfolded someone special and brought him to Esplanade. That's probably the most memorable meeting meeting because it was really random. ;) 

BONUS: If he's chubby and cute. 

So what do you think? Is my list too demanding or is it possible for me to find someone with at least 2 or 3 characteristics which I've listed down? I think it's possible. I just have to look harder. Honestly, I'm open to possibilities. Who knows? Maybe I'll end up with someone who scores badly on my checklist, but at the same time he's simple and he makes me happy. You'll never know what the future brings.

"Although we'll like to know what life's got planned, no one knows when shooting stars will land." :)

You must be wondering why I'm suddenly writing about this. Well, yesterday I watched a movie on Youtube called the Beauty and the Briefcase featuring Hilary Duff as the lead actress. Girls, you so have to watch it! 

Xoxo

RynaQUE

I ♥ U, but I want to strangle you!!

MynameisQUE;

It's funny how you care and love someone so much but yet most of the time you just feel like strangling the person. I have to salute couples who have been together for a very long time. I really wonder how they do it. How do you go through thick and thin with someone and still be there after a long time? It makes me wonder. Why am I writing this post?

Well, it's only because I wanted to post this photo of my bf and me on my blog. It's a cute photo, don't you think? I don't know what's the deal but I think boys are extremely annoying. Yes, that's including him. We're going through a tough time now with so many things in our way but I can safely say that the both of us are trying our best to keep things going. Oh come on, we're a new couple. Don't give us stares. Different relationships have it's own different hurdles.... Right? 

From what I observe, relationships last because there's GIVE and TAKE. Because there's CARE and SHARE. Because there's PATIENCE. And most of the time it comes from both parties. Thing is, I'm not a very patient person. I think I'm an extremely selfish person. Sigh..... 

Boys and girls, please appreciate what you have now. :')

You know, a friend told me that he doesn't believe in relationships before being financially stable. SERIOUSLY? My parents were in a relationship before being financially stable. A relationship happens when 2 people fall in love with each other. What's wrong with that? 

To all the lovers out there, keep fighting for your love. 

Xoxo,

RynaQUE

Men.

This is obviously a rant. I'm so annoyed that most men don't understand us women. What's so hard? We just want to be treated like how the girls in the movies were being treated. It's not funny. Can't you be at least as thoughtful like the ones in those romcoms? Don't tell me we need to point everything out to you. We're girls. We give clues and your job is to figure them out. Don't do things that you don't want us to do to you. It's a simple rule. This is a pretty redundant rant. Oh well. Haha i just made myself sound like a spoilt brat. Tsk.

"Sometimes it lasts in love and sometimes it hurts instead."

This blogpost was written at 2 in the morning.





I was on Tumblr just moments ago and suddenly I feel all *emo* after tumblr-ing. A few hours ago, yours truly pluck up courage to add the exboyfriend on facebook. It's a year and a half now since we broke up. I'd like to think that i'm already cool about everything cus we went out for a movie about a month ago (ok that story is for another blogpost ok?!)..... But really... Who am I kidding?

Maybe it's just me being bitter because he's still with the same girl he cheated on while he was with me... Sigh. No. This is not a pity party. It's okay. I'm sorry for this post. Perhaps I'm probably being annoyingly attention seeking at such an hour.

To the heartbroken souls out there, I'm not gonna tell you that you'll find someone better. Cry, beg or break down if you must. It'll be your best "teacher". HAPPY TEACHERS DAY BTW LOLOLOLOL Besides, if you don't fall now, how are you gonna have the strength/capacity to get back on your knees later? Every relationship failure you face will teach you something a "perfect" relationship wouldn't. Ok so it didn't work out with @Guyyouthoughtwastheone, so what? Time to reflect and try to learn how to be a better partner the next time round. It took me a year to get back on my feet. I'm sure you can do it too. Don't rush yourself. Take your own sweet time, sip that cuppa coffee and chill. ~~~ Kopi O satu!

Oh well. If you're on my Facebook, you'd know that i've recently started a new chapter.. Time to flip the page. Next!

Xoxo,
Blogged from my lovely iphone.

"Is he your boyfriend?"

MynameisQUE;

Someone asked me this question yesterday. To be honest, I didn't really know how to answer the person. When it comes to matters of the heart, right now, I'm not too sure about it myself.

You see, the whole idea of being in a relationship and being in love scares me. It's been a year since I embraced singlehood. The previous relationship was a nightmare because yours truly, being a little girl (ok not so little!!!) loved too much and received too little in return.

I wish being in a relationship was just as simple as just loving and caring about each other. If only things wouldn't get all complicated once you decide to take things to a more serious level. When you're in a relationship, you expect alot more from your partner. You expect him to understand you, to be there for you, to not be fooling around with other girls, to tell you everything, to not keep secrets etc. 

You see, this expectations could then... strain your relationship. It will most probably lead you to disappointment. Only the strongest will survive. 

Ah...

Que sera, sera. 

Xoxo, 

RynaQUE

Is Facebook ruining your relationship?

MynameisQUE;

I've always wanted to blog about this but I just didn't really have the time to sit and 

think about the impact Facebook has on me and I bet many other girls. 

But here I am, almost a year after my relationship with the ex boyfriend ended, 

typing this blog post because I finally have the courage to write about this. 

Why isn't he Facebook-ing you? 

Facebook has really changed our lifestyles. One example would be the relationship status of 

someone in their FB. Here's what I think. If you get to know someone new, and he has never 

asked you if you have Facebook, most probably, he's hiding something. 

Like.... He's not exactly single like he claims to be. 

Happened to me and I was right. Asked for his email and I found out 

he was attached. Toldcha Facebook reveals alot about a person. 

"It's complicated" to me spells out, 

"Hey, I'm still not over my ex-girlfriend and we are still working things out". 

Changing that relationship status from Single to In a Relationship

"If we're really in a relationship, why are you still single on Facebook?"

The changing of relationship might create alot of interest as it will definitely be 

on your friend's live feed. That's why I make it a point to always
remove the "change" on my status. You'd think that 1 click
wouldn't cause that much chaos, but yes it will! 

Overanalysing your other half's Facebook page

"Why does she keep liking your status?"

"You said you wanted to sleep. Why did you post a FB 

status at 3am in the morning?!"

Facebook was one of the reasons things between the ex and me turned sour. 

Just like any other person out there, I grew possesive. 

Professing your love for someone was so much easier before the Facebook era. 

I started writing mushy sweet nothings on his FB wall, dedicated songs blablabla and 

being a very private person, he didn't like the fact that I was too open about things

on the social networking sites that I use. Lack of affection online
could be another reason why Facebook is relationship. :/

I'd constantly check on the new girl he just accepted on Facebook and

there was this girl who very oddly keeps chatting with him on Facebook.

Yes, he was cheating on me via Facebook. 

I'm not too sure either. What about you?

Is Facebook ruining your relationship? 

PS:// To be honest, before I go on a date with a person, I'd check his FB first 

to see if there's anything fishy about him. Facebook not only 

will reveal ALOT about the person, it also means

he can't "lie to me" about his last relationship, etc. ';)

Online relationships?

MynameisQUE;

Its funny how some people treat online relationships seriously.

In fact, I think its not funny. Its just plain weird and stupid.

I mean, if you don't meet each other, don't contact each other often,

how can you even regard the rshp to be a serious one?

This kind of things should be common sense.

We all know online relationships are only serious if you take the relationship

to the next level, which basically means meeting up.

So if the person you're 'in a relationship' with got attached to someone else,

it wouldn't be his/her fault anyway.

Cos of the simple reason I used to never understand.

How can he/she love you when you've never met?

BTW I just ranted this shit for fun. HEHEHEHE.

Why are some girls soooo stupid?

Fancy giving their heart away so easily eventhough they haven't met.

*FACEPALM*

Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

MynameisQUE;


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I'm a happy girl!

Sometimes in relationships, you just feel like giving up.

One of the main reasons would be because you feel that the rshp

is no longer worth fighting for. At some point in time,

you'll feel as though there's no more hope in the relationship.

However, for me. I feel really thankful cos we were able to talk things out

and solve the things that has been straining the whole relationship.

One way to work things out is actually to play games.

Ask each other questions and it will definitely bring the both of you closer.

Some games are designed specially to allow couples to get to know

each other better. So, look for this kind of games

and 'compete' to see who knows each other better. ;)

You know what he answered??

When I'm having PMS. Thanks ah. Sheesh.

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

Well my idea of real love, is kind of simple.

You know the kind of relationship which has mutual trust and respect for each other?

And a relationship that has no secrets.

That's the ideal. ;)

And the best way for a couple to bond, in my opinion,

is to bond over, ICE CREAM!

This is because you get to talk to each other,

enjoy the icecream and even feed each other.

HEHEHEHEHEHE.

;) Because you're loving, caring and you know when to make the stupid

faces to cheer me up. ;) HEHEHEHE. ♥