Distance and Time

MynameisQUE;

Sometimes, I wonder, what makes a person your bestfriend? My bestfriend and I are of 2 different personalities. We're currently both pursuing different things and yet we call each other, bestfriends. Could it be the ability to tell the person everything and anything on your mind without being judged for it? Or could it be that you can hang out with the other person without being someone else? I don't know. Perhaps, at this moment, the term bestfriend seems a little too vague for me. I've seen friendships fade over distance and time, especially as individuals grow older and start to have their own careers, family etc. The thought of friendships fading seems a little scary for me. So does the thought of break ups and divorce. Yikes. What am I rambling? Can this post not be so emo, zomg? 

Here are some photos of 2 very cute girls for your viewing pleasure. Taken at Cafe Le Caire at Haji Lane. Urgh, the place is so gross, food's so expensive and you made us watch golf on the TV. Seriously guys? 

Xoxo

Ditched Ignite for my favourite girls

MynameisQUE;

We've been friends since secondary school and grew closer because of the art classes we had. It's a funny friendship. The 3 of us are really of different personalities yet we get along very well with each other. Okay, there are instances where we argue too. 3 girls and so much drama, trust me. Then again, I see ourselves as the Malay version of Powerpuff Girls.

Umairah (left) is will be heading to Australia tomorrow night to further her studies. Big dreams this girl has. I'm so proud of all of us. We've grown so much and we're now young adults. Really blessed to have such wonderful people in my life. Also, we're planning to save up some money to visit her in Australia next year! I'm really excited!

Spot my OCBC FRANK card. :P

Umairah and Wani.

Thank you for the beautiful friendship girls. :")

Xoxo

The mini getaway with the girls

MynameisQUE;

Last week, my close friends and I decided to have a mini get together at Aloha Loyang chalet. I managed to get pretty good rates and we were ready to roll. It was only one night but I had fun!

I started my morning by heading to BBQ House to get satay and otahs for bbq with the girls later the evening. We were only expecting a small group so we didn't buy too much food. Since it was a school day for our other friends, they couldn't join us. Anyway, if you're looking for stuff to bbq, you should consider BBQ house cos they're stuff are pretty cheap. 1 stick of satay cost 27 cents. If I'm not wrong. The cheapest compared to the rest I surveyed. You'll also get a 5% discount if you choose to walk-in/self collect the items you ordered. The downside would be that the place is pretty ulu near upper changi road, so you might have to take a cab to the building.  

Walking around Pasir Ris Park eating ice cream. 

Ordered brownies from an online friend, Syakina. The brownies were moist and delicious! My friends really loved her brownies. She also takes orders for cupcakes. Price wise, affordable compared to the other cupcake makers. Visit  http://sst-indulgence.blogspot.com/

And.... we entertained ourselves by playing with our meme masks. Hehe 

Anyway, we girls made a pact. No matter what happens, if we catch our partners/our friend's partners doing things behind our back, we are to inform each other. I thought it was a pretty good pact. I've always believed that girls should be united whenever it comes to men. Maybe it's just me. I don't know.

Also, we spent the night trolling people on Chatroulette with our masks. I'll share the printscreens with you soon. I really can't wait for my trip to Bandung!! :)

Anyway, if you don't know me, I'm Que. I'm a graduate from Singapore Polytechnic, with a Diploma in Media and Communication specialising in Social Media. I'm looking for a temporary job while awaiting for the results of my degree application. If you know of anyone looking for temp workers, email me at rynaque@gmail.com Thank you! <3

Xoxo

From complete strangers to friends. Do you ever meet the people you get to know online?

MynameisQUE;

 

The other day, I met up with these 2 beautiful ladies I got to know online. On the left is Anith, I got to know 3 years ago when I first started blogging. She was blogging anonymously at that time and only after a year..... Jeng, jeng, jeng.....  she revealed her identity to me. Met her in real life only once during some movie screening by Nuffnang.

On the right is Aishah, a fellow libra whom I got to know on Twitter a year ago back when I was tweeting emo things, ranting about how life and stuff like that. It was the first time meeting her! It was also the first time these 2 girls met. :> 

 Aishah and I. 

So... I suggested Fish and Co for dinner because you know, everybody says that the food is pretty good. Anyway, what better way to bond with the girls than a night of good food and laughter? 

This was what I had for dinner. 

Fish + Chicken + fries + mash potato. 

 It was just too much for me to handle, I didn't even try the fish at all because I was too full. :( 

 Here's Anith calling the water to refill her drink. HAHAHAHHAHA

 Aishah making faces. 

Overall, I felt that Fish and Co has a wide selection of food. I was impressed but after the next day, I had an extremely bad stomach flu which lasted for 5 days. Diarrhea and vomiting. :( It was really quite bad. Asked the girls but they were alright. I told my doctor about it and he said the virus there could be other possibilities. If not the food, perhaps the utensils, cups etc. So, I'll never know what caused the whole stomach flu. I'm not sure if it was because of the food served. So.... the next time I'll probably eat again at Fish and Co would be.... Well, not so soon definitely.

Back to the topic of meeting people you got to know online. I really love how the internet allows us to meet and connect with different people from all walks of life. From working adults to stay-at-home mums. It's really interesting because most of them are all older than me. These people are also the ones who would share their insights and stories. If my mum were to read this, she'll probably nag at me about how there are so many dangerous people online etc. Haha parents. :P 

We are the digital generation. :) 

Xoxo

Currently making changes in my life,if you do not hear from me, you areone of them.

Today, I question the value of our friendship.

 I have friends but i don't befriend douchebags. I think i've been fairly nice and tolerant towards you. I tolerated your hurtful and insensitive jokes. I tolerated your rants about your obsession with bikes. Do you how it's like to listen you boasting about the girls you're dating/have dated? *yawns* That's all you talk about. Bikes and girls. It gets really annoying at times.

Until today, it hit me. Why are we even friends? Remember how you would boast about how you and your friends left girls on the expressway, one even at the zoo. Way to go dougebag! The fact that you actually told several people actually shows how proud you were of doing such things. A person who felt guilty, would keep such things to himself. It's disappointing to know that someone i called "A friend" would do such thing to a few girls. You told me those girls "deserved" to be treated like that because they cheated on your friend, made use of your friend yada yada yada. Seriously? Who are you? God? Who are you to decide how a person should be punished for his/her wrongdoings?

What you did simply reflects poorly on your character. You look down on so many people, thinking you're "much better than them".

This friendship is pointless.