As With All Matters Of The Heart, You'll Know When You've Found It.

MynameisQUE;

Some would find her eccentric, but she believes that one day someone will find her weird quirks endearing. She appreciates a good man who is able to carry a conversation and one who takes her feelings into consideration. She also believes that there is nothing more sexy than a man who's comfortable in his own skin. 

Xoxo

How to survive long distance relationships?

MynameisQUE;

This is pretty close to the heart for me. 

1) Be patient. It is going to be dificult but you never know unless you try. 

2) Find ways to connect with each other. 

Whatsapp, Talkbox, Path, Pair etc. The list of apps you can try to use to connect with your partner is really endless. Try games too like Draw Something and Words with friends. It is always important to keep yourself updated about each other's life.

3) Give him/her a little space to breathe. Being too paranoid won't help either. I know the whole, "What is he doing there? Is he with some other girl?!" feeling. It's perfectly normal but you just gotta chill and trust him.

4) Keep yourself occupied. Remember, you have a life to live too. I think one thing I've learnt about men is that most of them like girls who are independent. It really gets on their nerves when we girls become too clingy. It's hard to not be clingy, so you just have to try.

5) Believe.

Good luck lovers! 

Xoxo

One of my favourite pick up lines....

MynameisQUE;

Picture by Ruiting from http://lovelivfe.com/

Xoxo

YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND DESERVE A BREAK. Couples Retreat for you? ~~ :)

MynameisQUE;

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In a crazy country like Singapore, when both partners are working, it gets a little too crazy and you don’t spend much time with each other anymore. Now, most of the time your attention is on either

1) YOUR KIDS

2)      YOUR WORK

Don’t you think it’s time to take a break and spend quality time with your beloved partner? 
We all know that communication is key in every relationship. When's the last time you actually had a heart to heart talk with your partner?

Imagine this. 

A fully planned Cinta Nan Satu Couple Retreat programme for 

You + Hubby 

Here at Pulai Spring Resort & Spa,

Johor Bahru, Malaysia. (5 Star resort btw!! ;) 

Away from your kids! 

Actually can still bring them along however, extra charges apply but someone will be babysitting them there and there's activities planned for them too. Actually, the best will be to get someone to look after while you're gone. (Ask your parents/parents in law etc). 

And it's only for $155 PER COUPLE

Includes meals, hotel, coach to Johor (to and fro). I think it's WORTH IT. Firstly, you don't even have to worry about planning the couple retreat. All you have to do is register, come with your hubby and enjoyyy yourself. It's a good deal! There'll be activities lines up for you AND chances for you to win exciting prizes like netbook, camera, LCD TV, DVD recorder etc. Wah!! So fun. Honestly wish I was married and maybe i could join you all. :P 

Anyway, did I tell you that there are only slots for 

15 COUPLES?

For registration or further enquiries, contact Haslinda at 91276163 or you can choose to email them directly at prowise2005@gmail.com. LIKE them on FACEBOOK too to get updates! 

Last day to register will be 31st January 2012. 

2 WEEKS FROM NOW!

Anyway, my cousin will be one of the facilatators for this couple's retreat, so if you have any questions, you can tweet me @RynaQue and I'll get her to contact you straight. :>

While you're at it, I think it's always important to remind your partner how much you love them. 

Call them now and say the 3 magic words. ;) 

For more information, please refer to this poster. :) 

*Click on the image to enlarge.

Xoxo,

RynaQUE

QReviews: A Singapore Love Story by Low Kwa Hwa

MynameisQUE;

Being a 19 year old teenager (Haven't hit my big two zero!! Hehe), I believe that when 2 people fall in love, money, background and status isn't an issue. Well, at least for now.

A Singapore Love Story, the 10th novel written by a Singaporean novelist is about 2 individuals who come of different backgrounds falling in love. The girl comes from an upper class family. The boy, was a typical ah beng. The kind who didn't study hard, the kind our mums wouldn't approve of. I was honestly expecting a cliche happy ending at the end, (well, that's what I hoped for actually) but it wasn't anything like that. I'm sure some of you might find this story relatable somehow.

It's easy to start a relationship with someone, but it's not easy to mantain it. In a place like Singapore where the cost of living is very high, you and I both know that a mere 4 lettered word itself is not enough to sustain a relationship in the long run. It's a great book with an unexpected twist of fate. If you're a dreamer, like me, you might want to read this book so that you'll be able to remind yourself of the harsh reality of life. 

Amazing story! Get ready to be tricked :P

 A Singapore Love Story by Low Kay Hwa retails at $17.90 and is available at the usual book stores! MPH, Kinokuniya, Times and Popular.  :)

Xoxo, 

RynaQUE

I ♥ U, but I want to strangle you!!

MynameisQUE;

It's funny how you care and love someone so much but yet most of the time you just feel like strangling the person. I have to salute couples who have been together for a very long time. I really wonder how they do it. How do you go through thick and thin with someone and still be there after a long time? It makes me wonder. Why am I writing this post?

Well, it's only because I wanted to post this photo of my bf and me on my blog. It's a cute photo, don't you think? I don't know what's the deal but I think boys are extremely annoying. Yes, that's including him. We're going through a tough time now with so many things in our way but I can safely say that the both of us are trying our best to keep things going. Oh come on, we're a new couple. Don't give us stares. Different relationships have it's own different hurdles.... Right? 

From what I observe, relationships last because there's GIVE and TAKE. Because there's CARE and SHARE. Because there's PATIENCE. And most of the time it comes from both parties. Thing is, I'm not a very patient person. I think I'm an extremely selfish person. Sigh..... 

Boys and girls, please appreciate what you have now. :')

You know, a friend told me that he doesn't believe in relationships before being financially stable. SERIOUSLY? My parents were in a relationship before being financially stable. A relationship happens when 2 people fall in love with each other. What's wrong with that? 

To all the lovers out there, keep fighting for your love. 

Xoxo,

RynaQUE

Men.

This is obviously a rant. I'm so annoyed that most men don't understand us women. What's so hard? We just want to be treated like how the girls in the movies were being treated. It's not funny. Can't you be at least as thoughtful like the ones in those romcoms? Don't tell me we need to point everything out to you. We're girls. We give clues and your job is to figure them out. Don't do things that you don't want us to do to you. It's a simple rule. This is a pretty redundant rant. Oh well. Haha i just made myself sound like a spoilt brat. Tsk.

"Sometimes it lasts in love and sometimes it hurts instead."

This blogpost was written at 2 in the morning.





I was on Tumblr just moments ago and suddenly I feel all *emo* after tumblr-ing. A few hours ago, yours truly pluck up courage to add the exboyfriend on facebook. It's a year and a half now since we broke up. I'd like to think that i'm already cool about everything cus we went out for a movie about a month ago (ok that story is for another blogpost ok?!)..... But really... Who am I kidding?

Maybe it's just me being bitter because he's still with the same girl he cheated on while he was with me... Sigh. No. This is not a pity party. It's okay. I'm sorry for this post. Perhaps I'm probably being annoyingly attention seeking at such an hour.

To the heartbroken souls out there, I'm not gonna tell you that you'll find someone better. Cry, beg or break down if you must. It'll be your best "teacher". HAPPY TEACHERS DAY BTW LOLOLOLOL Besides, if you don't fall now, how are you gonna have the strength/capacity to get back on your knees later? Every relationship failure you face will teach you something a "perfect" relationship wouldn't. Ok so it didn't work out with @Guyyouthoughtwastheone, so what? Time to reflect and try to learn how to be a better partner the next time round. It took me a year to get back on my feet. I'm sure you can do it too. Don't rush yourself. Take your own sweet time, sip that cuppa coffee and chill. ~~~ Kopi O satu!

Oh well. If you're on my Facebook, you'd know that i've recently started a new chapter.. Time to flip the page. Next!

Xoxo,
Blogged from my lovely iphone.

"Is he your boyfriend?"

MynameisQUE;

Someone asked me this question yesterday. To be honest, I didn't really know how to answer the person. When it comes to matters of the heart, right now, I'm not too sure about it myself.

You see, the whole idea of being in a relationship and being in love scares me. It's been a year since I embraced singlehood. The previous relationship was a nightmare because yours truly, being a little girl (ok not so little!!!) loved too much and received too little in return.

I wish being in a relationship was just as simple as just loving and caring about each other. If only things wouldn't get all complicated once you decide to take things to a more serious level. When you're in a relationship, you expect alot more from your partner. You expect him to understand you, to be there for you, to not be fooling around with other girls, to tell you everything, to not keep secrets etc. 

You see, this expectations could then... strain your relationship. It will most probably lead you to disappointment. Only the strongest will survive. 

Ah...

Que sera, sera. 

Xoxo, 

RynaQUE